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Support for Widows and Widowers

You may have to make decisions about:

  • Social Security Checks
  • Social Security Death Benefits
  • Veterans Benefits
  • Insurance Benefits
  • Probate
  • Taxes
    1. Federal Estate Taxes
    2. Income Tax
  • Titles
    1. cars
    2. home
    3. bank accounts
  • Debts 

Social Security Checks

  • Let Social Security know that you spouse has died.
Social Security checks are always one month behind. A person must be alive at the end of a month to get their benefits for that month. You CANNOT keep the benefits for the month in which your spouse died.

      For example:

      The check you get in July is for benefits earned in June. So if your spouse died in June, you must return the check you get in July. It was for June and the spouse was not alive for the whole month

      Your Money from Social Security

      How much money you get after your spouse dies depends on whose work record your benefits were based. If you were getting benefits based on your own work record, your benefits will not change. If you were getting benefits based on your spouse's work record, then after your spouse dies, you will get a monthly check equal to what your spouse got while alive.

      As a widow/widower, you are entitled to the amount your spouse was getting each month or the amount based on your own work record, whichever is more.

      For example:

      A husband gets $900 per month. His wife gets $450 per month based on her own work record. The husband dies. His wife now gets $900 per month based on her husband's work record. But she no longer gets her $450.

      NOTE: this means a widow or widower may get less each month in total household income. Keep this in mind. You will need to make a new budget.

      Social Security Death Benefits

      As a surviving spouse, you may also get a lump sum "death benefit" of $255. To get this, you must have been living in the same household with your spouse when he or she died.

      If you were getting benefits based on your spouse's work record for the month he or she died, you need not apply. Otherwise, you must apply for this lump sum benefit within two years of your spouse's death.

Veterans' Benefits

  • If your spouse was getting veterans' benefits when he or she died, you may be able to get survivor's benefits. Even if your spouse was not getting veterans' benefits when he or she died, you may still be able to get certain lump sum payments after his or her death.
  • If your spouse got an honorable discharge, then you can get an allowance to use towards the funeral, burial plot, and grave marker.

Insurance Benefits

A life insurance policy is a contract between the insurance company and the person who buys the policy. When the insured person dies, money is paid to the person named in the policy. This person is called the "beneficiary."

      Claims

      Tell the insurance company your spouse has died. If you have any trouble figuring out what to do, call or go to see your insurance agent. Your agent expects to give you this help. There is no charge for it.

      If the policy does not name a beneficiary, the insurance company will pay the money to your spouse's estate.

      Creditors and Insurance Money

      Insurance money that goes straight to the beneficiary can't be touched by the estate's creditors. You can spend it as you want.

      If the money from life insurance goes into the estate because no beneficiary was named, then creditors of the estate can get paid from the insurance money. You will not get any of this money until all expenses of the estate have been paid.

      Taxes on Insurance

      The beneficiary - whoever that may be - gets the money free from income taxes. 

Probate

Filing a will and settling an estate is called "probate." You should be aware that some types of property does not "go through probate."

Things that do not through Probate

Property Passing to a Surviving Spouse
Community or separate property passing to a surviving spouse, either by will or Intestate succession, is not required to go through formal probate.

NOTE: Although "formal" probate is not required, title to certain types of property passing to a surviving spouse, including real property may require "summary" procedures, such as a Spousal Property Order being filed with the court. Community property does not automatically go to a surviving spouse; a spouse may will her one-half interest in community property to anyone. If a spouse dies without making a will (intestate), then all his community property goes to the surviving spouse.
Estates Valued at Less than $100,000
Only estates of over $1000,000 are subject to formal probate. There are various "summary" procedures for transferring different types of property in estates with a total value under $1000,000. Property held in joint tenancy or in a living trust is not counted toward the $100,000 limit.  These limits apply to personal property.  The limits for real property are more restrictive.
Property Held in Joint Tenancy
The main characteristic of joint tenancy is the "right of survivorship." This means that when one joint tenant (owner) dies, the property passes automatically to the remaining joint tenants(s). The decedent's name is cleared from title by filing a simple affidavit with the County Recorder's office. Property held in joint tenancy is not part of the decedent's estate and is not subject to probate.

Because of misunderstandings about the nature of joint tenancy, individuals frequently try to leave joint tenancy property to someone else in their will. Such will provisions have no effect: the property still goes to the surviving joint tenants.

WARNING: For a variety of reasons, putting someone on title to your property as a joint tenant to avoid probate is usually not a wise thing to do. Always get legal advice before making changes in title to your property.
Property Held in Living Trust

Living trusts are legal entities that can own property. An individual (grantor) creates a living trust by executing a document called a "Declaration of Trust." The individual then transfers title of the property from themselves to the trust.

When the individual dies, there is no estate to be probated because the trust, not the individual, owns the property. The trust property is then distributed or managed according to the instructions the grantor gives in the trust 

Named Beneficiary Assets


Your spouse may have owned assets in his or her own name when he or she died. If your spouse's solely owned assets have a named death beneficiary, then probate will not be needed. A death beneficiary is the person who gets the assets when the owner dies.

                        Examples:
                        1. an IRA with a beneficiary,
                        2. bank account set up "I.T.F." (in trust for),
                        3. certain U.S. bonds and securities, and
                        4. life insurance with a beneficiary.
If these assets name death beneficiaries, they go directly to the death beneficiary. They are not part of the estate assets. The death beneficiary would have control over the assets. All the death beneficiary has to do is get in touch with the people holding the assets and tell them your spouse has died.

Things that go through Probate:

 As mentioned in the prior section on assets that are not subject to probate, California law allows a decedent's property, whether it is community or separate property, or to pass to a surviving spouse without court administration (formal probate).

 However, depending on the type of property, summary procedures may have to be taken to transfer title of the property to the surviving spouse. An example of these "summary" procedures is a Spousal Property Order issued by the court to transfer title of real property to the surviving spouse when title was held in the decedent's name only, or when, for tax reasons, the surviving spouse needs to establish the property as community property.

Without a Will

If your spouse dies without a will, assets will got to people according to the "intestate" laws. These laws say how assets will be distributed if there is no will. The state writes a "will" for you if you didn't write one for yourself.

Under California intestate law, if a person dies and is survived by:

               1. A spouse, but no issue ("issue" means children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren), then everything goes to the spouse.

               2. A spouse and parents, but no children or their issue: all community property goes to the spouse. Separate property is split 50-50 between spouse and the parents. A descendant but no spouse, everything to the descendants per stripes.

               3. A spouse and one or more children: all community property to the spouse. Separate property is split 50-50 between spouse and one child. if more than one child, spouse takes one-third and children, however many, divide two-thirds. Issue of deceased children take by "right of representation." In addition to biological children, children include: stepchildren and other children if the parent child relationship began during the child's minority and continued through the decedent's lifetime. It must also be shown that the decedent would have adopted the child but was legally prevented from doing so.

Taxes

    Federal Estate Tax
Federal estate tax is paid only when the value of an estate is more than $1,000,000. Widows and widowers get an unlimited marital deduction for property that goes to them.

California estate tax is paid only if federal estate tax is paid. It is a credit against federal estate tax. What is not paid to the federal government is paid to the state government instead.
    Income Tax
Your spouse's federal and state income tax may also be due for the year of his or her death. This will depend on whether the two of you had to file and pay taxes. If so, then the taxes are due on the normal filing date of the next year.

You may file a joint return for the year in which your spouse died. If you think Federal income tax may be due, call the Internal Revenue Service at 800-829-3676. Ask for a copy of "Information for Survivors, Executors, and Administrators," Publication No. 559.

Titles

After your spouse dies, you may have to change the title of ownership on some assets.

           Spouse's Car
The California Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) has forms you use to transfer title to a car when the owner dies. If you belong to an auto club, it should be able to help you get and fill out the forms.

If not, call the DMV and ask for the form, "Transferring the Title Without Administration." The telephone number can be found in the White Pages, under "State Government - DMV."

Home Deed
  If your home was in both names, you don't need to change the title now. Wait until you sell the home or your own estate is settled. That will save you the cost of a new deed.
  
Joint Bank Accounts
 If your bank account is in both names, it's a good idea to leave it that way for a short time. That way, if you get a check, which has only your spouse's name on it, you may be able to deposit the money into the joint account. This can avoid the need to open an estate account just to cash these checks.
   
Other Jointly Owned Assets
 You should put any other joint assets into your name alone.  If these include stocks or bonds, you may need the help of a stockbroker. If you don't have a broker, you should consider choosing a discount broker, not a full-service one. The only help you need is with putting the stocks or bonds into your own name. You don't need investment advice for that.
   
Titles on Assets with a Named Death Beneficiary
 You will have to switch title to those assets your spouse set up to pass to you as a death beneficiary. These might include IRA or bank accounts set up in trust for you.  To make this switch, all you usually have to do is call whoever is holding these assets and tell them that your spouse has died.

If you were the beneficiary of your spouse's IRA, you may want to think abut a "rollover" into your own IRA. You would not have to pay current income taxes. You may want to talk to a tax advisor to help decide if this would be best for you.

Debts of the Spouse Who Died

In California, spouses are liable for most of the debts that are incurred before or during the marriage. An exception might occur where a creditor agreed to look only to the spouse incurring the debt for repayment, or where it can be proved that the spouse not incurring the debt was unaware of the debt and got absolutely no benefit. This type of situation is rare. Creditors will almost always go after the surviving spouse for payment of the decedent's debts. Other states may vary their treatment of these debts.

How Estate's Debts are Paid

At the formal level, creditors, after being properly notified by the estate representative, must file their claim forms with the court within four months of the representative's appointment. The court then oversees the payments. Secured debts and debts incurred after death, such as funeral expenses, do not require formal claims.

Informally, whether the estate representative has the authority to act without court supervision or when no court administration is necessary because of the nature of the estate, the representative has the authority to pay estate debts at their discretion.

 Individual beneficiaries of a will, or heirs of an estate, are liable for the debts of the estate to the extent they inherit. In other words, if you inherit $10,000, your liability to creditors of the estate is limited to $10,000.

Notify Creditors

 All of the decedent's creditors should be notified. If there is court administration of the estate (probate), the notification must be done in a very precise way.

Other Things to Consider

When your spouse dies, there are other legal things to deal with. You will need to decide if you need a new will.

You should also think about giving someone you trust a "durable power of attorney". This lets someone you trust handle your financial affairs. In a "health care power of attorney" you name someone to make medical decisions for you if you are not able to.

 Many recent widows or widowers find it helpful to talk to others who understand what they are going through. Many programs give help and support to the newly widowed.  If you retain us to help with administration, we will supply these contacts.